So far, 2020 has turned out nothing like I expected. Early in the year, I planned the #yearofthewindow, began daydreaming about Season Four of True Tales From Old Houses, considered training for another marathon, and looked forward to a trip to Sweden in August. I also had window work planned in the Hudson River Valley, and I expected my YouTube channel to be up and running more regularly. 2020 was the year I was going to make a real go of Blake Hill House. Things were looking good. I even had a few interviews for a potential TV gig. Then, like everyone, life changed quickly. Pandemics: I don’t recommend them. Social reform? Yes, please.
My six-year blogiversary passed in June with zero fanfare. My heart just wasn’t in it. I longed to write for writing’s sake, but I continued to struggle with time management. When I get overwhelmed, my MO is to daydream about getting rid of most of our possessions and living fulltime on the road in an RV. The minimalist traveler fantasy is a sweet escape, but unrealistic at this stage of life.
With all six of us home fulltime now, there is more work than ever. Thankfully we all pitch in to help. Life looks very different right now, and we are not expecting a shift any time soon. I realize that I sound a little gloomy, but hey, we’re friends, right? Friends let friends wallow a little from time-to-time. My underlying positive and goal-oriented self is still intact.
Despite all of this, I am making some progress here at BHH. Since there is no chance we will have visitors, I have gone blind to all of the partially-completed projects throughout the house.
The Grand Staircase
This project has stalled for the most part, but I did paint the stair risers.
M’s Teen Bedroom
This bedroom is my main focus right now. I want to get my daughter moved back into her room as soon as possible. She is so good at living in a state of flux, but I’d like to give her back some stability.
I’ve been working on the dumpster desk, and it’s starting to look a lot less like someone’s garbage.
After we decided not to install wallpaper to save some money, we secured a fun new sponsor for the accent wall. It was serendipitous timing, and M. is very excited. I recognize that I’m being cagey as I write this, but you’ll be the first to see the big reveal. I promise.
While we wait, I am busily restoring the window in her room. It has been mostly inoperable for a couple of years. She has always had a nearby fire escape option but now seemed like the perfect time to get ‘er done. This window sash is the most intricate pattern I’ve restored to date, and I am into it.
The Garden
When everyone went into lockdown due to the pandemic, there seemed to be only two options: learn how to make sourdough bread or plant seeds. I planted seeds.
The container gardens in breakfast nook were a bust, but everything else thrived. We built some raised garden beds at the end of May, and now we have wee tomatoes!
I put so little thought into this garden that every success feels like a gift. I expected nothing, and I might get a fresh tomato sandwich sometime in August.
Everything Else
- Season Four of the podcast True Tales From Old Houses is up and running, and we have a genuinely inspiring line-up of guests coming your way. Devyn and I are pouring our hearts into this project, and we hope you enjoy the episodes. You may subscribe to the podcast on your preferred platform or listen right on the website.
- I did manage to get my YouTube channel up and running, and I hope to develop it more in the coming months. If you subscribe, you’ll get notified of new videos.
- My Instagram friend Kelly, and I are hosting something called The Old and Slow Room Challenge (#theoldandslowroomchallenge). It technically started June 15 and ends December 15, but anyone can jump in at any time. Since old house projects take f o r e v e r to complete, Kelly and I thought six months sounded like a reasonable amount of time to try to get one room back in business. I’ll be sharing my room(s) with you as soon as I finish my daughter’s bedroom. I have forbidden myself from focusing on anything else.
- Family stuff – My daughter and son went back to training for their sports last week. It has been a long four months! My oldest will finish his final college class from home and graduate in December. He had zero intention of walking at the ceremony, so he isn’t feeling like he is missing out. Andy is working from home at least through Labor Day and maybe longer.
That’s all I have today. How is everyone else handling all of this 2020 stuff? Are you doing ok? Please let me know.
14 Comments
Candice
Congrats on your anniversary! It has been quite a year. I don’t think any of us could have imagined where we’d be right now. I love all your content and the podcast! It’s all very interesting and enjoyable even though I don’t have an old house. 🙂
Stacy
Thank you, Candice. I appreciate it. It’s been a ride, and I hope that you are doing ok too. <3
Downraspberrylane
So many of the best plans have been put on hold. I was so excited to be chosen to volunteer as a guide in this September’s Summit Hill House Tour, which has, of course, been postponed until Sept. 2021. (I believe you have relatives in the area so you may be familiar, but if not, Summit Avenue in St. Paul is the longest avenue of Victorian houses in the United States.) Anyway, seeing as how that is very nearly the extent of my Covid-related problems, I really cannot complain. I am, as ever, gobsmacked by how much you get done. I’m on pins & needles to see the wall in the teen bedroom!
Stacy
I am not familiar with the Summit Hill House Tour, but it sounds like something I would enjoy very much. I am sorry that it was postponed for a year. 🙁 Yes, as COVID-related problems go, mine are small too.
PS: I’m looking forward to showing you the wall!
Devyn
I think you have achieved quite a lot given how chaotic this year has been. I can certainly relate to the frustration of things not going as planned.
Stacy
It’s been a year!
Vanessa
It is funny how having all of this time forced onto to me has made me apathetic. For the most part I am mildly busy until 3:00 or 4:00, but then – nothing. I don’t even like to watch tv and I’ve all but given up reading. It’s weird really, although I must admit, I am completely comfortable otherwise. All the people around me are working and that is really important. I lost out on a trip to London in March, but nothing else.
I think you are doing a great job!
Stacy
I admit to feeling apathetic too sometimes. It’s such a strange time that nothing feels quite right. I am sorry about your trip to London.
Chris
Oh goodness, reading someone gardening in the far north always makes me laugh. Your tomato sandwich is in August, and mine was a month ago. I live a little north of Houston. I plant in late Feb, and the big burst of tomato crop has already come and gone. My second last cantaloupe will get picked tomorrow. The cherry tomatoes will produce all summer though, so I will not be entirely bereft. My elderly mom had oral surgery a few days ago, so tonight we will be having burrata, avocado, and cherry tomatoes from the garden, sprinkled with a bit of salt and pepper and a basalmic reduction. Maybe poached eggs too. I highly recommend it once your tomatoes come in.
Grats on your blogiversary! The plague has hit us all in odd ways. I got my garden in, but I haven’t managed to do any of my (very long) list of house repairs.
Stacy
Gardening here is so weird! I moved here from California six years ago, and the growing season could not be more different. I hope your mom recovered well from her oral surgery.
Liz
My family traveled for work this year, and we had 8 months in a little beige apartment to plan all our next renovations on our 120 year old victorian…and then fell flat on our faces and haven’t quite picked ourselves up! At least your son will get to enjoy his redone room a bit more than you thought.
Stacy
I 100% understand losing momentum. Your plans are still your plans, and when you’re ready, you can move forward. You’re right! It is nice having my son home, and he likes his room too.
Pat
I’ve been working 60+ hours most weeks since March.. My house has devolved into a flop house, basically just shower and sleep here. Nothing is getting done, I barely find time to mow the lawn and the weeds have taken over. I manage to find time to shop, but the non essentials have cleaned most of the shelves by the time I get off work so it’s disappointing and frustrating.. I’m thankful for the work, as exhausting and dirty and sweaty as it is, but long for a week off to sleep and shovel off the kitchen counters.
Congrats on the blog, I enjoy reading about your adventures. I’m enjoying it right now with a Monster coffee as I wake up. Cheers!
Stacy
Oh, gosh. You sound busy and stressed out too. Everything is such a mess right now. I am not sure when we will start seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, but I hope you get some downtime before then.