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I am not even going to attempt to bury the lede. A few weeks ago, I texted my realtor friend and asked her when we should consider listing BHH. She replied that the housing market starts to heat up in March. Because Western New York has such abysmal winter weather, house hunting comes to a screeching halt in November. So, we will be putting BHH on the market in March 2024. Gulp…

I try to keep it real here, even at the risk of worrying my mother, who reads from afar. (Hi, mom!) The news that I have less than a year to get this house ready makes me waffle between excitement and mild panic. Recently, I also learned that I will have to have major surgery with a twelve-week recovery. So, while I should be up and moving well within a couple of weeks post-op, I will be wholly restricted from lifting, exercising, and basically, anything else I regularly enjoy for the full twelve weeks. Ugh…

Winter would be the perfect time to lay low and recover from surgery, but there are some unknowns. I also need a biopsy, which has pushed the timetable to sometime in early summer. Unfortunately, that means I’ll lose most of the warm weather I rely on to complete outdoor tasks, compressing the exterior maintenance timeline for BHH into the next few weeks.

To that end, I’ll focus on repointing the foundation, window restoration, and finishing the details on the street-side front porch.

Between exterior maintenance tasks, I’ll keep plugging away at the staircase restoration. I know everyone is very excited about following along with that project, but I think it is something I may be able to do standing upright or sitting down, and it may fit well with the latter part of my recovery. If not, I have an alternate plan in my back pocket. I always do.

At this time, I’m thinking only good thoughts for the biopsy, surgery, and everything else. I can only do so much here, and what is left undone won’t be the end of the world. I do have kids who can fetch things for me and take direction well. I’ve also got a small stash of cash to pay people to help, and maybe I’ll learn to love lying around doing nothing. Here’s hoping that’s true!

29 Comments

  • Candice
    Posted April 17, 2023 at 9:27 am

    Best wishes for a successful surgery and clear biopsy! Twelve weeks feels long but perhaps it will go by quickly. Like you said, do what you can to the house and that will be good enough.

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 8:07 am

      Thank you so much, Candice.

  • Susan Grinsfelder
    Posted April 17, 2023 at 9:38 pm

    Thinking good thoughts for your biopsy, surgery, & recovery, Stacy. ?????

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 8:07 am

      Thank you, Susan!

  • GingerCashio GingerCashio
    Posted April 17, 2023 at 11:04 pm

    I’m wishing you all the good thoughts and the perfect outcome to all that you’re dealing with. I will miss this blog in a short year.

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 8:08 am

      Thank you, Ginger. You can’t get rid of me so easily. 😀 The blog will continue.

  • Johanna
    Posted April 17, 2023 at 11:32 pm

    Sending lots of good wishes for the biopsy, surgery, and recovery! I’m sure everything will work out well, for you and for BHH!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 8:08 am

      Thank you, Johanna!

  • SoPo Cottage
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 7:45 am

    Wishing you the best with the biopsy and surgery. But my guess is you’ll figure out how to get things done one way or another! ? Surely you can strip paint sitting down while the kids move things for you!!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 8:09 am

      Thank you! You’re right; I’ll figure it out. I always do. 😀

  • Brenda
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 8:23 am

    Sending positive thoughts for your surgery and recovery!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 3:42 pm

      Thank you, Brenda!

  • Marnie
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 8:44 am

    I’m sending all my good vibes your way, too! Too bad we can’t trade dispositions for those 12 weeks; I, unfortunately, LOVE sitting around doing nothing. ?

    So glad your work will continue when you leave BHH, it adds so much to the world!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 3:42 pm

      Haha! If only we could body swap. 🙂 Thank you for the well wishes!

  • Jenny
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 9:00 am

    Wishing you the best for surgery, recovery, and healing! Life has a funny way of happening all at once, doesn’t it? Like Marnie, I also love sitting around, so please adopt some of our vibes for that time!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 3:44 pm

      Thank you, Jenny. Life sure does have a way of happening all at once. You’re right!

  • Barbara H.
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 10:16 am

    Our best laid plans …you know the drill. Holding good thoughts for you! I had a little fantasy daydream for you this morning that someone who loves the house buys it from you off market and lets you live there rent free until time to move with no further restoration work needed by you because they have deep pockets and will take care of it all. Wish I had those kind of daydreams for myself!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 3:44 pm

      Thank you, now, how can we make this daydream a reality? haha!

      • southern gal
        Posted April 18, 2023 at 6:39 pm

        OMG the best comment!!
        wishing this for you too!

  • Michelle Dembik
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 12:45 pm

    Wishing you the best for all that is ahead of you and hoping you find someone who will love Blake Hill House and take care of her the way you have!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 3:44 pm

      Thank you so much, Michelle. 🙂

  • SH
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 1:06 pm

    Even though you are only in the just-talking-about-it stage, and not actually packing up and driving away, it is still so emotional. Really, really glad that the blog will continue with you and your future adventures. But still…

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      Stacy
      Posted April 18, 2023 at 3:45 pm

      It IS emotional. Change is often difficult.

  • Southern
    Posted April 18, 2023 at 6:42 pm

    still recovering from my emergency surgery – and frustrated with the limits of weight and activity – so i can commiserate
    sending good wishes that it all goes well. Glad you have your children to help out!

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      Stacy
      Posted April 19, 2023 at 8:31 am

      I really hope you turn a corner soon so you can get back to the projects you enjoy.

  • Blair
    Posted April 20, 2023 at 11:40 am

    Hi Stacy – I hope your surgery and recovery go well. I wanted you to know it’s because of YOU that I’ve started repointing my own stone foundation. Your online video gave me the courage to take on the project and I’ve gained a new skill that I actually enjoy. And it’s saved us a great deal of money. Thank you!

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      Stacy
      Posted July 4, 2023 at 9:05 am

      Hi Blair,

      I am so sorry that I didn’t reply to your comment until today. I am typically much better at keeping up. I saved things to do during my recovery period, but I never should have waited this long to get back to you.

      I am SO pleased to hear that the repointing info and video helped you move forward on your own project. That’s great news. I hope you are having a lovely summer! It’s perfect repointing weather. 🙂

  • Mary Ellen Polson
    Posted June 29, 2023 at 12:42 pm

    Stacy: Very sorry to hear about the surgery and enforced post-op period . Hope all went well and you are in swift recovery mode. (Getting your energy back is the hard part.)
    As for selling your beloved house, I know that’s especially wrenching but as I recall you and your partner aren’t working in the same place. If you need a portable job that pays actual money, let me know.

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      Stacy
      Posted July 4, 2023 at 9:00 am

      Hi Mary Ellen,

      The forced rest has begun… 🙂 I am super sad about selling BHH, and I do miss Andy. So, it will be good to be in the same place permanently.

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